TODAY I’M sad and I don’t know why.
I’m stuck at a problem at work. Last week I was given a huge data set to analyze but I couldn’t extract the metadata that I needed to crunch. The boss didn’t give me a deadline but still, I’m frustrated. Sometimes I think I’m too dumb for this job. Sometimes I also think that maybe I shouldn’t have abandoned writing as a career.
But why do I continue to write in English anyway? I clearly lack the skillz. A writing teacher once gave me a handbook on “How To Write Better English.” After that I started writing in Filipino. It’s been a while since I wrote something in Filipino. Why, self, why?
Maybe I’m just not meant to be great at anything. I was a mediocre writer and now I’m a fairly stupid engineer too. I don’t even have the marks to get me into grad school. Ay whatever. I probably won’t fit in the academe anyway.
And to further this pity party: a lot of shit happened at work last week (just like most weeks, but Last Week deserves its own trophy). The most memorable shithap was when one dude got mad at me for parking at an illegal spot (entirely my fault). I made a a semi-big mess because the bosses of the bosses got involved — yikes! I guess I’m a stupid driver too.
I really need to get a new job in the summer. I’ve only applied to two industry positions and I’m considering bugging the profs for a research job at the university. Should I? Should I not? It will look good on my CV and it might also increase my chances of getting into grad school. Research pays shit though, and I’m in need of funds. Hay, life.
But before I even dream about getting that PhD, I first have to finish a technical report due by the end of March. I was supposed to contact my sources last week but because of the shithaps at work (and because I’m a chronic procrastinator) I ended up watching a lot of football instead. Boy was it a good week to be a Barça fan. Now if only Barça trophies can write my report and get me a job, ‘no?
Whatever. I’m aware that I’m just being a lazy-ass reklamador at this point. This post is also so incoherent I should’ve just written it in bullets. But I promise I will get my shit together next week. Promise talaga! And if not, then whatever. Mamamatay din naman tayong lahat.
The featured image was roughly patterned after Sophie from Frances Ha.
you are talking history since all that is done. you cant do anything about it. try not to waste any energy on the past and use it for the present.
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so true, man. i should keep this in mind. easier said than done, but i will for sure try my hardest to just focus on moving forward. thanks, buddy. 😦
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🙂
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Ahhh. We all have those times when we feel inadequate. Adulting sucks sometimes. Lol. But yea, know that we all go through those times. Keep going! Tomorrow is another day!
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we do, don’t we? ang hirap ngang maging matanda. thanks for the kind words, man. if you ever go through a rough time, remember that you gave this advice to a complete internet stranger — we’ll keep going! 🙂
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Kaya mo ‘yan dude
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wala din namang choice kundi kayanin, e ‘no? ay ang nega ko, haha. salamat dude! 😦
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easy haha
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No. The post, though random, is coherent enough for me to understand what you are clamoring for. It’s just a bad day, not a bad life so perk up 🙂 You’re not a bad writer (in English). You’re actually excellent and I like hearing from you. So keep on writing! You’re doing well.
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“it’s just a bad day, not a bad life” — i really needed to hear this, carl. grabe huhu. you didn’t have to compliment my writing skillz naman, pero salamat a. salamat talaga huhuhu. 😦
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Walang anuman. I just wanted you to perk up. Everything will figure themselves out in the end. 🙂
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Don’t be too hard on yourself, Jolens. Life is hard enough. This feeling sucks, big time. Virtual hugs na lang muna from me to you, this time.
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bessss!!! naku, huhuhu. salamat sa virtual na mga yakap! sana balang maaraw mayakap kita nang personal! 🤗
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Quote ko na lang yung lyrics ng Sons & Daughters (by Tall Ice Lung):
“Don’t take it so hard / I still believe in you. / We all make our mistakes, /and you’ve seen mine too.”
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hirap ng buhay ‘no, rAdish? charot huhu. ikaw rin a, kapag may pinagdadaanan ka sa buhay, kantahin mo rin ‘yan sa sarili mo. 😦
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Dumadaan naman lahat na mga pinagdadaanan. Daanan mo lang. Malalaman mo na lang, nagdaan na iyong mga nagdaan, (Shet, naging makata bigla, hahaha.)
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Hahahaha ayos a! Dapat talaga malampasan ko ‘to kasi kung hindi, marurutuy kami digdi sa balay. Choz huhuhaha. Tengs rAdish! 😊
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Jolens! Di pa tayo nagmemeet but I wana give you a hug! Lols. Keri mo yan! Also magaling ka magsulat noh. O kaya wag mo muna kwestyunin sarili mo at all. Go lang.😊
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salamat sa kind words yin! ‘di ko inexpect na babasahin n’yo talaga ito; nakakaginhawa sa pakiramdam huhu. sana magmeet din tayo! yakap mula sa malayo! 🤗
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I love your word choice ❤️
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